true happiness

true happiness ( Buddhism)

There is someone. Even when he goes to school, he feels that he needs a car. Wanted, but not. That's why it's sad. Every time he sees a car of the type he likes driving on the road, he's sad that I don't have it. Even if you go on a trip, your eyes go to cars. Sometimes I go to look at cars and miss one thing after another. There is always the sadness of saying no.

He goes to work. Just the other day, he was thinking that he would save money and buy a car. Working very hard. Doing OT. Working on weekends too. He spends a lot of money to eat, drink, travel, and spend. I don't go to many things that are told to be happy to enjoy the comforts of society, because I want to save money.

Finally buy a car. Need a car, now have it. So happy. But now, instead of sadness, fear is walking. No one is allowed to drive, they are afraid that something will happen. Children are not allowed to eat anything inside it, they are not allowed to put their legs on the seat. They don't allow you to touch them, they say they are fools. People don't go where there is no parking, because if you park on the road, something will happen. Don't go on narrow roads or broken roads, because it will cause damage. Sometimes they keep a car and go on foot to be careful.

Wash frequently. Paying for license and insurance. Paying for service. Tires have to be installed. Repair is coming. Quite expensive.

No matter how careful you are, accidents happen. It grinds, twists, breaks. Very sad.

Is it happiness or sadness because of a car? Because everything is there, it is good to see that it is there. Other than that, it's sad.

The person who has the mindset that he does not need a car will not have any of these problems. Don't worry about not having it. When you have it, you won't be afraid of breaking or losing it. You don't have to suffer to get it or to keep it. The sorrow that comes when it is broken and destroyed will not come. No effort. Not even ten. No sadness. No fear.

This does not mean that you should not buy a car. Take the necessities of life. Don't overdo it, don't pile things up. With it there is a great piercing.

Wanting something is sad. No matter what you want, there is a lot of suffering. The more races you want, the more you will suffer. As the wants decrease, the sorrow also decreases.

The joy of achieving anything is inspiration. Inspiration can turn into great sadness at any time.

True happiness is the comfort where there is no need. That happiness does not depend on receiving something. That's why nothing can destroy that happiness.